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Don’t Be Dishonest Guys hate anything that will scare women away because they know it reduces their odds, and no guy likes reduced odds.This often leads to stupid behaviors like deception and lying – for example, not telling a woman your marital status until you’ve gone out too many times or, worse, telling a woman you’re divorced (especially online! You have to be honest or you’ll look like a dick – you just have to know how to spin it.Things are a bit different when one spouse wants to become separated and the other doesn’t.This type of separation requires a two-year waiting period."i have met a lovely lady and, we are living together only after 17 days ..thxs" - cheeky1always "I joined this site out of curiosity.From time to time I will check out Evan Marc Katz’s site to see what sort of dating-related questions he gets (and the resulting comments).After a year of this arrangement, you may file for divorce.Once you are granted a divorce, you can legally begin dating.
If you slip up and become intimate, the waiting period starts over again.For example: She will get past the “separated” label IF you show her you have things under control and aren’t going to make her life miserable.You Can’t Just Think About “Me” The problem with separated men is that they want to date because they’re tired of being alone and unhappy and want some hope after the pain of divorce. But as I discuss in , many may not consider what they have to offer a woman.Be honest (with her and with yourself) about where you are and what you can offer, shield her from your ex and the details of your divorce, and, even though you’re needy right now, focus on her and what she needs.Guys who can do this have more successful relationships during divorce and avoid bringing more drama into their lives.