Be ready to do the “unexpected date,” go to the novel location, and experience the unknown. Be willing to let go of what you know, and enter the new. It sounds empowering, and women are loving the comparison. The only thing a secure established woman controls, is her own life. As an older woman, you’ve had the added years of self-reflection to have learned your truth, and live authentically. Resist the temptation to mold him into the rigid dating versions of the past. By assisting each other and working together, you can create the version of dating/relationship that works best for both of you. In evolving partnership models, two people function as one unit, with equal input and joint control. From my years of research, this type of partnership is where the real magic happens. He’s probably had more sex than you have While you might think you’re the one with all the experience, here’s where the tables often turn.You’ve become less reactive (what men call “crazy”), taking on life with a greater perspective while taking yourself less seriously. Just because he’s young, doesn’t mean he’s sexually naïve. Younger generations have grown up with a more open attitude toward sexuality. The oldest man I’ve ever dated was still 12 years younger than myself. But at 80, I probably won’t feel like writing about it.Oh God help me, The feeling that came over me was a surprise and somewhat of an embarrassment.In our society it is as if life is suddenly over for a woman who has entered her forties. t seem right to me, it is acceptable for an older man to go out with a younger woman but for an older woman to go out with a younger man, well she is considered a downright leach. I found as I entered my second adulthood I had so much energy.
The younger guy doesn't have hang ups like our generation. He is forging new paths and they find older women more sophisticated and maintaining an air of mystique. s confidence in herself while the mature woman has the ability to boost a young man? He loves the feeling that he is getting an encounter with the ultimate in sophistication.
The connection you share will be one of resonance, not formula.
Expansion and excitement are the hallmarks of involvement with a younger man. You may not be the one in control The term “Cougar” conjures up images of a stealth hunter on the prowl for her next easy prey. While former versions of dating assumed male and female roles, today’s younger guys prefer to create original models.
You’ve won enough battles to know your strengths, and lost enough challenges to know you’ll survive. From the statistics I’ve studied, many young men have been active since their early teens. While older men are said to have mastered the art of pleasing a woman— again, this is anecdotal. In time, perhaps I’ll have the opportunity to experience a man in his 50′s or 60′s.
But don’t assume this younger man is a toy, or easy prey. You may easily discover your younger man is more enlightened than anticipated. Their entire sexual landscape is uncluttered by the former mores of times past. I’ve heard far too many complaints to believe it’s factual.
To enjoy the best results, here are five things you need to know: 1. If you want to date a younger man, first allow the thought to exist. Just as you’d tune the dial for the type of music you like, the radio is automatically set to pick up that station. Each generation becomes more enlightened and inclusive. What you thought would be a casual fling, may turn into the real thing.